{"id":35482,"date":"2013-11-19T20:48:11","date_gmt":"2013-11-19T12:48:11","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.pikaland.com\/staging\/?p=35482"},"modified":"2016-08-23T18:48:54","modified_gmt":"2016-08-23T10:48:54","slug":"why-going-away-is-the-best-thing-you-can-do-for-your-sanity","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.pikaland.com\/staging\/2013\/11\/19\/why-going-away-is-the-best-thing-you-can-do-for-your-sanity\/","title":{"rendered":"Why going away is the best thing you can do for your sanity"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-full wp-image-35483 aligncenter\" title=\"icecream\" src=\"http:\/\/www.pikaland.com\/staging\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/icecream.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"500\" height=\"667\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.pikaland.com\/staging\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/icecream.jpg 500w, https:\/\/www.pikaland.com\/staging\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/icecream-335x448.jpg 335w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I had my first extended holiday overseas for two weeks after 3 years of working non-stop, and I just came back. Between this and the last time wanderlust bit, I&#8217;ve been majorly productive \u2013 there was a major website overhaul and redesign, a wedding, a funeral, a major freelance project, teaching assignments, a big launch and lots of other fun and serious stuff in between.<\/p>\n<p>Suffice to say, I needed to go away. I had to \u2013\u00a0for my sanity&#8217;s sake. My engine has been running on full speed for the past few years that I almost found it impossible to stop. What would happen if I did? Would things stop? Would time stop? Would I stop?<\/p>\n<p>And stop I did.<\/p>\n<p>I stopped to look, listen and explore again. And this time it&#8217;s without a purpose other than the sole pleasure of drinking things in. I took great joy and pride in re-learning routes on the Tokyo subway, and I stopped caring that my sputtering of Japanese vocabulary had regressed even further since my last trip in 2010. I stopped caring about what others thought of me as I walked around wearing socks and sandals because I was most comfortable walking around in them (my feet can&#8217;t quite stand fully covered shoes \u2013\u00a0they hurt and blister my feet!)<\/p>\n<p>Mainly I stopped beating myself up for taking a break. I used to think that if I stopped just for a while, the balls that I had juggled in the air all these while would all fall on the ground \u2013\u00a0bouncing off the floor, mocking me as they rolled to a stop. None of that happened. In fact, I felt a lot better for allowing myself to stop and just breathe.<\/p>\n<p>No phone calls.<br \/>\nNo SMS&#8217;es.<br \/>\nNo replying of emails unless it was absolutely urgent.<br \/>\nNo social media (except for <a href=\"http:\/\/instagram.com\/pikaland\" target=\"_blank\">Instagram<\/a> \u2013\u00a0I cheated on that one).<\/p>\n<p>While I was away, I felt that the heart, time and energy that I&#8217;ve poured into my projects had left a void inside me. Much like the theory of energy transference, I transferred my hopes and dreams into something tangible, and now I was the one in need of a refuel. <strong>Like designers and artists who use their energy to create, their fuel is gathered through the experiences \u2013\u00a0whether it&#8217;s through those that they seek out, or those that seek them.<\/strong> An imbalance in the cycle \u2013\u00a0whether through a lack of input or output, would cause things to break. People. Relationships. Work. <em>Something<\/em> always breaks.<\/p>\n<p>The trick is to recognize <em>before<\/em> that break happens, and do something about it. It&#8217;s not always easy to know it before it&#8217;s too late. <strong>So the best course of action is to go away before you need to step away.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Otherwise you might never make it back.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff6600;\"><strong>SHARE WITH ME:<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>Have you ever been burnt out, and what did you do to overcome it? What soothes your weary soul and recharges you?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>[P\/s: if you&#8217;re on Instagram you can see where I&#8217;ve been over <a href=\"http:\/\/instagram.com\/pikaland\" target=\"_blank\">here<\/a>!]<\/em><\/p>\n<p>&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;<\/p>\n<p><em>If you think this article is helpful, there\u2019s more coming your way! 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